you're wasting your time

*Thank you Greg & Liz  


He's just not that into you ;

- If he's not asking you out.

- If he's not calling you.

- If he's not dating you.

- If he's not having sex with you.

- If he's having sex with someone else.

- If he only wants to see you when he's drunk.

- If he doesn't want to marry you.

- If he's breaking up with you.

- If he's disappeared on you.

- If he's married (and other insane variations of being unavailable).

- If he's a selfish jerk, a bully, or a really big freak.

Don't listen to ;

- Guys that get pursued by some girl first and she ends up being the love of his life.

- The guy that treats this girl that he sometimes sleeps with like shit for a couple of years, but she keeps at him and now he's a devoted husband and father.

- The guy who doesn't call a girl that he's slept with for a month, and then calls her and they live happily ever after.

- The woman who is sleeping with the married guy who ends up marrying and having a blissful long-term marriage with.

RESET YOUR STANDARD ;

I will not

- go out with a man who hasn't asked me out.

- go out with a man who keeps me waiting by the phone.

- date a man who isn't sure he wants to date me.

- date a man who makes me feel sexually undesirable.

- date a man who drinks or does drugs to an extend that makes me uncomfortable.

- be with a man who's afraid to talk about our future.

- under any circumstances, spend my precious time with a man who has already rejected me.

- date a man who is married. 
- be with a man who is not clearly good, kind, loving person.

p/s:

Timing is everything, even in love. And when you are not ready to commit, you could end up regretting it.